trim, bare, or all natural? - Play Safe Forum Topics

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May 28, 2017 at 4:29 am #106418

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May 28, 2017 at 11:08 am #110886

ElleBelle
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I get a bit jealous when I look at 70s porn and all the women had full bushes. Pube maintenance is just so much work, plus the ingrown hairs and the itchy regrowth – ugh! I’ve only ever had one or two partners express a preference, otherwise I just trim if it starts to get too long. For my partners, I prefer trimmed or natural.

May 29, 2017 at 1:06 am #110887

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May 29, 2017 at 2:15 am #110888

CloakOfAsh
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As a guy I trim but have shaved in the past – never again. So painful on regrowth etc.

I don’t expect anything more or less from my partner and don’t really mind either way although I did date a girl who was always very shaven/waxed – TBH I found it kinda weird, she was small and a little younger than me anyway and it just added to the age issue for me haha. Was much ‘easier’ for oral tho!

May 29, 2017 at 3:29 am #110889

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May 30, 2017 at 11:07 am #110890

Aunt_Flo
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As much as I hate discovering a pubic hair in my mouth after oral, I like my partner to be all natural – but I’m not fussed. I’ve been asked if I could shave before and that was a bit hurtful. I leave the ~bermuda triangle~ and shave the rest off. Ingrown hairs are just the worst though. Same with little nicks! Yeeow!

May 31, 2017 at 7:44 am #110891

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May 31, 2017 at 8:21 am #110892

MsBlueStreak
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As a person who doesn’t engage in the oral (giving or receiving – it’s just not for me), I give not one damn about what my partner does.

I myself vary based upon whether I give a damn at that point about neatness (and somewhat whether my dermatitis issues are causing the worst form of itchy shaving rash).

May 31, 2017 at 12:20 pm #110893

Aunt_Flo
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@curious I heard it somewhere else and thought it was a cute way of referring to it, haha.
Of course you can ask. It’s not really a strong preference – I do happen to think hair is quite sexy on my partner, but if he shaved it bald it wouldn’t make a difference to me. Hair just works for me is all.

June 1, 2017 at 2:09 am #110894

CloakOfAsh
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@Aunt_Flo is it Bermuda because you can get lost down there!? haha

June 1, 2017 at 9:39 am #110895

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June 4, 2017 at 2:30 am #110896

Kit
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My personal choice for myself is waxing but not fussed about a partner’s pubic hair – although maybe my experience has only been with neat hair so far! 😀

June 6, 2017 at 6:40 pm #110897

ElleBelle
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My preference is a little bit aesthetic but mostly for comfort. It’s impossible to be completely smooth at all times, and stubble just doesn’t feel very nice during sex. I don’t even like pash rash on my face…

June 7, 2017 at 12:28 am #110898

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June 7, 2017 at 2:09 am #110899

CloakOfAsh
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@curious it just means how it looks!
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